Why I Won't Have Regrets
- for myself, those who will graduate soon + those who recently have, and anyone looking to evaluate life -
“Without crazy people who are willing to suspend their fears and travel into the unknown, this would be a bland, boring world.”
Now, I'm set to graduate college. I'm ready to head to an internship in North Carolina. I'm ready to move on to the next stage. That's what's making me take a moment to evaluate my life, specifically my college career, up to this point. Have I done it right? What could I have done differently? Will I look back with regret? The closer I get to that day where I'll cross the stage, the more I realize that I'll look back on fond memories, lessons learned, great friends, and accomplishments I was told I'd never achieve.
First off, I was lucky to be raised by an amazing family. No matter how crazy my family can get, they're there. I'd be nothing without them. Additionally, I made it through high school with a great group of friends that have now become brothers. I couldn't be happier we've kept such a strong relationship through college. Then, there are my new friends, the people I've met in my absolutely insane ride at Central Michigan University. This is my support system. These are the people that have always been there pushing me to work harder and succeed more. People like these are the ones you should desire to be surrounded by. To all of you (most likely the only people reading this,) I say thank you.
Each person I've encountered along my path in life has impacted me in some way or another. They've influenced me by teaching me, inspiring me, and helping me improve. So, what's one of the things I don't regret? Every person I've met and relationship I've formed over the years, whether or not they've lasted.
YMCA Youth Center, Asheville, NC
Another reason I won't have regrets is because I got involved. When you grow up, especially in a university environment, you have the opportunity to get involved. Even if I hadn't attended college, I would've taken on roles in my community. There are always chances to be a part of something bigger than yourself. Plus, taking part in community welfare can lead to great happiness, in my opinion.
I've been involved in intramural sports, honor societies, hall council, student government, the university newspaper, study abroad, the volunteer center, the Alternative Breaks program, Leadership Safari (sorry non-CMU people,) and many other organizations and activities. I'm not saying this to brag or act high and mighty - I'm saying this because I believe it's important to participate as much as possible. Each of these involvements has lead to either a friendship or an opportunity to do something extraordinary.
The third thing? I taught myself an instrument. This may seem small, and while I may not be great at guitar, I attempted it. I stepped out of my comfort zone. I even performed a song in front of over 250 people. Now, that was cool. But, it's not simply about the act of learning how to play guitar. I'm happy that I pushed myself to learn something new each and every day for months. Investing time in a talent is relaxing and rewarding, even if you do so for your own pleasure.
Only two more things, I swear.
“The biggest mistake people make in life is not trying to make a living at doing what they most enjoy.”
My greatest accomplishment? I started a business. I highly doubt anyone thought I'd succeed in that, but I did. What I've done may not measure up to other people's standards, but I've worked since Sophomore year of high school to build a legitimate business of creating videos and taking photos. Why is this so important? I paved my own path in life. I pointed myself in the direction that I cared about, and for that, I can say I'm proud. Many people deny themselves the ability to do what they love in life, and I'm a firm believer in the opposite. Passion is what drives us and allows us to be our best selves. There are two tenants that help us chase passion. As the tattoos of well-known YouTuber Casey Neistat say, "Work harder. DO MORE."
Again, to those who've supported me in this massive endeavor, I owe you everything. To my current and past clients, I wouldn't be here without you.
Piazza del Popolo, Rome, Italy
My final note: I'll always be thankful for my love of adventure and my desire to travel. Experience, culture, chance encounters, and lifelong friendships are gained from such activities. I've been able to do and see so much, though I know there's much more out there. But, understanding that inspires me rather than hinders me. I'm excited for what's left to come, and I'm grateful for what's already passed.
To those I've met during my travels and to those who've taken me along on theirs, I also say thank you. Without crazy people who are willing to suspend their fears and travel into the unknown, this would be a bland, boring world.
Ultimately, why am I writing this? This is meant to help me remember the good that's come from my experiences, especially those in the last four years. I've grown so much at Central Michigan University, and while I'm worried about the future of the institution, I wouldn't have become the man I am today without it. The students and professors here alike are inspiring and caring. My final thanks goes to the people at CMU that make it special.
It's an amazing life, and it's been a good run so far. I'm gonna cherish every second of it. And, those are the reasons why I won't have regrets.
I hope you're looking forward to what's next as much as I am.
Red Rocks Park, Jefferson County, CO
